What is Christianity?  Some say it is a philosophy, others say it is an ethical stance, while still others claim it is actually an experience. None of these things really gets to the heart of the matter, however.  Each is something a Christian has, but not one of them serves as a definition of what a Christian is.  Christianity has at its core a transaction between a person and God.  A person who becomes a Christian moves from knowing about God distantly to knowing about him directly and intimately.  Christianity is knowing God.

“Now this is eternal life; that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.”    --John 17:3

Why do I need to know God?

Our desire for personal knowledge of God is strong, but we usually fail to recognize that desire for what it is.  When we first fall in love, when we first marry, when we finally break into our chosen field, when we at last get that weekend house—these breakthroughs arouse in us anticipation of something which, as it turns out, never occurs. 

We eventually discover that our desire for that precious something is a longing no lover or career or achievement, even the best possible ones, can ever satisfy.  The satisfaction fades even as we close our fingers around our goal.  Nothing delivers the joy it seemed to promise.  Many of us avoid the yawning emptiness through busyness or denial, but at best there is just a postponement.  “Nothing tastes,” said Marie Antoinette.

There are several ways to respond to this:

By blaming the things themselves – by finding fault in everyone and everything around you.  You believe that a better spouse, a better career, a better boss or salary would finally yield the elusive joy.  Many of the most successful people of the world are like this – bored, discontented, running from new thing to new thing, often changing counselors, mates, partners, or settings.

By blaming yourself – by trying harder to live up to standards.  Many people believe they have made poor choices or have failed to measure up to challenges and to achieve the things that would give them joy and satisfaction.  Such people are wracked with self- doubts and tend to burn themselves out.  They think, “If only I could reach my goals, then this emptiness would be gone.”  But it is not so.

By blaming the universe itself – by giving up seeking fulfillment at all.  This is the person who says, “Yes, when I was young I was idealistic, but at my age I have stopped howling after the moon.”  This makes you become cynical, you decide to repress that part of yourself that once wanted fulfillment and joy.  But you become hard, and you can feel yourself losing your humanity, compassion, and joy.

By blaming and recognizing your separation from God – by seeing that the emptiness comes from your separation from God, and by establishing a personal relationship with him.